Creating Conscious Relationships with a Common Neutral Ground: Building a World with Co-Creativity Instead of Enmeshment and Codependence by Byram Larry

Author:Byram, Larry [Byram, Larry]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: UNKNOWN
Published: 2016-07-13T16:00:00+00:00

Relationships take on a new role at the third level. They become reflections of our own issues and lessons. Instead of creating safety and security blankets for others, we realize that relationships are the primary way we get support in the form of creative feedback from others. When we are not being responsible for the types of Truth we are communicating, we can get into trouble and overstep our bounds. It is also true that others may become reactive because we are not preemptively including their perspective in our own truth. It is good to stretch the boundaries of our partners, meaning it is not good to affirm that they are as limited as they think they are. These types of safety and security issues function like bicycle training wheels. If we are going to establish clear boundaries, hopefully it will be a temporary moratorium on not doing something that would trigger others. This allows us to regain our balance and recover our capacity to redefine our own safety and security requirements. Eventually, they should be able to affirm themselves and speak their own truth clearly, without needing us to prop them up.

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